Friday, 28 September 2012

Benny carson

The Story of Benny



Benjamin Carson as a boy was raised without a father; he had part of his high school education at a school where blacks like him were considered as never-do-wells.
In 1961, bennie as his mother fondly called could not even answer a single question correctly; while in the same class a fellow student answered 30 questions correctly. You can imagine, amongst the failures bennie was regarded as a failure, funny as it may seem but by 1987, the same bennie was regarded as the best amongst the best in paediatric neurosurgery. 
The big question is “how did bennie’s story change?” many factors contributed to his success story which includes inspiration from his mother. At a time when Bennie failed many of his courses and did badly in the rest his mother told him “bennie! You aren’t a failure, you are a smart boy you just aren’t using your smartness...and if you keep on failing you will spend the rest of your life mopping floors, that’s not what I want for you and that’s not what God wants for you either”. she went on to tell him ‘harness your imagination; make full use of it and you can be whatever you want to be as long as you’re willing to work at it’. She also helped him to maximize his study time by making him watch only two programmes on TV every week, giving him time to read and report two books each week.
Bennie had some weaknesses, the most prominent of them being his temper, he was hot-tempered. once angered he becomes vicious, he once attempted hitting his mother but was stopped by his elder brother. He also got close to stabbing a fellow student. He did one admirable thing about this weakness, he asked God to take away his hot-temper.
Gradually Bennie’s grades got better and better until at 8thgrade when he won the price for the student with best achievement award. After high school he was admitted on scholarship to the University of Yale to study neurosurgery. The university had its own challenges for Bennie, at a point he was at the verge of losing his scholarship due to bad grades. When faced with academic challenges Bennie normally remembers his mother’s saying “you can do anything anybody else can do only you can do it even better”
Bennie graduated from university and was accepted at John Hopkins hospital as a resident. In 1985 he was brought to limelight after successfully carrying out hemispherectomy, that is removal of the seizure prone part of the brain, the left hemisphere. He performed this operation on a child believing that the other brain cells will take up the functions of the left hemisphere. Today hemispherectomy is now an acceptable treatment.
In 1987, he achieved a landmark when with a crew of 50 doctors he separated the first craniopagus twins (Siamese twins shearing the same head) with both of them alive. The major challenge in separating these twins was excessive blood loss leading to death of at least one of the twins. Bennie figured out that the heart can be stopped for about an hour without any danger, this he did and spent the hour reconstructing their blood vessels so that when their hearts were started no much blood loss occurred. This was a major breakthrough in medicine, one that bennie will always be remembered for. He was ranked the best paediatric neurosurgeon in the world.
Looking at it from the history angle, this is the same person that once couldn’t answer one question in a test. His story changed because he was ready to make a change. Believe me, no matter how bad things look now, if you are really ready to make a change, your story can change for the better
Remember “you can do anything anybody else can do only you can do it even better”

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TOUCHING STORY....

 My mom only had one eye. I hated her. She was such an embarrassment. She cooked for students and teachers to support the family. There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me. I was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me? I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school one of my classmates said, ‘EEEE, your mom only has one eye!’ I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear. I confronted her that day and said, "If you’re only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don't you just die?" My mom did not respond. I didn’t even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings. I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her. So I studied real hard, got a chance to go abroad to study. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own. I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts. Then one day, my Mother came to visit me. She hadn’t seen me in years and she didn’t even meet her grandchildren. When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited. I screamed at her, "How dare you come to my house and scare my children! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!" And to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared out of sight. One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip. After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity. My neighbours said that she died. I did not shed a single tear. They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have. "My dearest son,I think of you all the time. I’m sorry that I came to your house and scared your children. I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you. I’m sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mother, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with one eye. So I gave you mine. I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. With all my love to you, Your mother." the son got into tears, but it was too late.

 MORAL LESSON:
 Never neglect your MOM, Because she is a blessing. One day you will cry when she will be gone.
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Note: this is a work of fiction, cos my mum is not blind in one eye!!!